Monday, September 1, 2008

Vacation

Okay, so I've mentioned a couple of times recently, on the blog I deleted, that we are going on vacation soon. This is the first real vacation for our family, and we've been married for nine years! This trip will even be much bigger than our honeymoon!

My oldest brother is about to retire from the USMC, so we will be going to his retirement party this month. In New Jersey! ROAD TRIP! Even with the gas prices, it is much more economical for us to drive with a family of 6. So, we will start out in Wagoner at Myles' nephew's wedding. If the wedding is late in the day (I can't remember the time), we may try to go to the zoo before the wedding. Probably won't happen, now that I'm thinking that one through! What have I been smoking?! Okay, so we will likely go to the Tulsa Zoo the NEXT day. Once we leave the zoo, probably sometime in the afternoon, we will hit the road for New Jersey.

We are planning to arrive at my brother's house a couple of days later. There is no hurry in getting there, so as long as we're there in a couple of days or so, we'll be doing great! My SIL, the wonderful person she is, reserved and PAID for us to stay just down the road from them at a church camp! I am really looking forward to that! We will have access to many of the amenities that the campers have!!!

We'll just be hanging out around their place, visiting with them and enjoying the company of family. Oh, and they live on the bank of a lake! I think they have 2 or 3 different kinds of boats. I may be wrong, but I think they have a paddle boat, row boat and canoe....at least two of those. We'll get to do some fishing and maybe swim. I can't wait!!! We will spend several days there and then we will head to the beach!

My children have never been to the beach before. I think that is what I am looking forward to the most....their expressions when they see the ocean for the first time. That wide-eyed wonder as they look across the vast expanse of the never-ending blue. It will be awesome indeed. We're reading up about the ocean and beaches a little so we can be prepared with activities and just so they will all know what to expect, to some extent. This beach guide is excellent, and it is from New Jersey! And it was designed for teachers to use in the classroom! Perfect! We're also coming up with all kinds of fun beach crafts for us to choose from. We'll have to narrow it way down though since we will only be at the beach for two days. I would LOVE to do a dolphin watch boat ride, but it doesn't look like they'll be open on the days we will be there. I'm sure there are other options though for taking a boat out on the ocean. Myles is also interested in touring a tugboat (he's been watching Theodore Tugboat WAY too much lately!) and wants to visit the Cape May Lighthouse. We may go camping there too! And while we're in the general vicinity, we also plan to visit the Hereford Lighthouse. We definitely will leave time for splashing in the water, building sand castles and finding all kinds of treasures on the beach. I want to try to find a private beach to explore, but we may not be able to until we get there. I've never been in the area before.

So once we leave the very busy, fun-filled two days at the beach, it will be time to start making our way home. (sniff, sniff) However, the fun is not quite over yet! The minister who married us 9 years ago moved to Pennsylvania, and we plan to go see them. He was Myles' spiritual mentor when he was still single, before I met either of them. They live just 6 miles or so off the highway we will be on, so how can we not stop by? We haven't worked out any details with them yet, but we will probably visit with them for several hours one day and then the next day I want to visit and tour an Amish village that is only a few miles away. Again, how can I pass up the opportunity???

Then we will be headed straight home. No more planned activities. We will probably spend two more nights in motels and try to find some parks along the way for the kids, but Myles really wants to have as much down time as possible at home before he goes back to work.

I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!! This will not be a cheap trip, that's for sure, but we are going to try to keep the cost of accomodations and food to a minimum so we can put more money towards the fun stuff. Please pray for safe travels for us. It is still several days away, so I have plenty of time to pack. I'm surprised I haven't even started yet, considering how excited I am. I guess it's because I'm behind on laundry again. Ugh!

Jonathan is busy at the moment making as much chalk dust as he can. This is just after he took so much time cleaning the chalk board with a magic eraser, and he started yesterday! They've been drawing all morning. It needs another cleaning! He's also singing the same song over and over and over again. Oh wait! New song! And Jayla is joining in now. :)

Jayla is drawing on paper. They keep arguing off and on, but they are completely working it out on their own. (I often have to step in when Jacob is involved, but as he is getting older, he's getting more mature about it too.) She has been playing with an imaginary friend this morning too. She's never had one before but has seen them on cartoons, so she thought it might be cool to have one of her own. It works out great since I am sometimes tied up when she is tired of the boys! She and her imaginary friend played tic-tac-toe for a while earlier after Jonathan got tired of playing.

Jacob is all over the place right now. He wants to ride his bike on the street, but I told him he needs to keep it in the yard for now until we can all go out together. He's also playing with Bristle Blocks. They love those things! Apparently Jack just bumped into him. His tower fell and he yelled "Grrr! It's all your fault, Jack!" LOL! He doesn't normally get mad at Jack! He is learning to either move away from him or give him his own toys!

You know what Jack is doing at the moment! LOL!

As I try to breathe through all the dust that is accumulating, I think I will open the door and have them take a break to clean. We've got lots of laundry to put away!


A moment of our day

Jonathan is busy at the moment making as much chalk dust as he can. This is just after he took so much time cleaning the chalk board with a magic eraser, and he started yesterday! They've been drawing all morning. It needs another cleaning! He's also singing the same song over and over and over again. Oh wait! New song! And Jayla is joining in now. :)

Jayla is drawing on paper. They keep arguing off and on, but they are completely working it out on their own. (I often have to step in when Jacob is involved, but as he is getting older, he's getting more mature about it too.) She has been playing with an imaginary friend this morning too. She's never had one before but has seen them on cartoons, so she thought it might be cool to have one of her own. It works out great since I am sometimes tied up when she is tired of the boys! She and her imaginary friend played tic-tac-toe for a while earlier after Jonathan got tired of playing.

Jacob is all over the place right now. He wants to ride his bike on the street, but I told him he needs to keep it in the yard for now until we can all go out together. He's also playing with Bristle Blocks. They love those things! Apparently Jack just bumped into him. His tower fell and he yelled "Grrr! It's all your fault, Jack!" LOL! He doesn't normally get mad at Jack! He is learning to either move away from him or give him his own toys!

You know what Jack is doing at the moment! LOL!

As I try to breathe through all the dust that is accumulating, I think I will open the door and have them take a break to clean. We've got lots of laundry to put away!


Sunday, August 31, 2008

Another, perhaps better idea, and a picture. :)

This is another idea for backing up a blog. This may even be better and just as easy as the other idea I had. I will probably do both. What can it hurt?

So just create another one or two Google accounts (or whatever blog you're on) and share ownership (administration) between all of your accounts. That way if one account does get deleted, you can easily get it back, even though you may not be able to have the same sign-on name, as in my case!

One thought though. I'm sure a company as big as Google would never have this problem, but ya never know.....If something were to happen to their servers, you could lose all accounts at the same time. So I think I'll do the email as well!

And another thing I just thought of, if you upload your images to your blog account, they will only be on one account. So you still may have your blog if that particular account is closed, but you'll lose your pictures. It's an extra step though to upload them to another site, so I'll just be lazy and do it the same old way I have been! I've got my pix on the computer (and backed up) anyway, it's the text I want to be sure to back up somewhere!

I just don't want to go through this again!!! Any other ideas I'm not thinking of? I'm sure there are many other ways to save your blog.

Oh, great news though! I was over at my BFF's house tonight. I noticed on her Google Reader she had my old blog on there, the one I just lost. It was still there!!! So I copied the entire thing and emailed it to me! So I got it back! Woohoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And for some reason my very first ever blog is still online, perhaps because I ended up not deleting the original account that I intended to delete. It doesn't have administration priveledges though, so it's just sitting there. I will likely not add anything from those blogs to this one, I'll just start over, but I wanted to have them for my own "memory" for when I scrapbook! Thank You, LORD! :) And Chrysinda. :)

I'll end this with a very funny candid picture of Jonathan. I'm sure it would embarrass him to know I put it on here, but what are moms for? :) I was trying to take a picture of Jacob but he wouldn't let me and kept turning away. So as I started to press the button, I turned the camera toward Jonathan and surprised us both! I laughed so hard I cried!


Blogging tip!

So I'm starting a new blog because of what happened yesterday. I have no other choice since I can't recover it or use the same name as before. :( What happened was I had logged out of my Google account that I was using regularly, logged into my old account to delete it, and then it read the wrong account or something and deleted my newer account! I was devastated! So because of that, I decided to do something new with my blog that I thought I'd share with anyone who reads this. A tip to back up your blog in a very easy way.

Most of you are probably aware that you can have your entries emailed to you when they are published. I just recently discovered (either this is new or I haven't checked this in a long, long time) that you can send it to up to 10 email addresses now! So I have some email addresses I use for spam and rarely check them. They are just web-based email I've used in the past and never deleted the accounts so I could use them for junk mail like newsletters that I really don't want to read but have to sign up for it to get something for free.....things like that. I think I put a total of four addresses on there, so I shouldn't have to worry now about completely losing everything if something were to happen again.

So it's really easy to do. You just go into the 'settings' tab of the blog you want to put them on. Click on the 'email' tab and it is at the top. You can enter up to 10 addresses separated by commas. And if you only have one email address, there are tons of places you can get more for free, like gmail, hotmail, and Yahoo.

HAPPY BLOGGING! It will be happier for me knowing I won't have to worry about losing this now! :)

To learn more about unschooling.....

Warning: This is a long list, and I haven't even checked them all out myself, so I can't promise you all the content will be from a Biblical perspective (probably not) or have only *good* pictures and text on them!

-----------------------------------------------------

Unschooling 101

************* BOOKS *************

Learning All the Time by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201550911

How Children Learn by John Caldwell Holt 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201484048

How Children Fail by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201484021

Teach Your Own: The John Holt Book of Homeschooling by John Holt and Patrick Farenga
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0738206946

Instead of Education: Ways to Help People Do Things Better by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0525134379

Moving a Puddle and Other Essaysby Sandra Dodd
http://sandradodd.com/puddlebook

The Relaxed Home School: A Family Productionby Mary Hood
http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/0963974009

The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How To Quit School and Get a Real Life & Education by Grace Llewellyn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0962959170

Real Lives: Eleven Teenagers Who Don't Go To School by Grace Llewellyn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0962959138

The Homeschooling Handbook by Mary Griffith
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761501924

The Unschooling Handbook: How to Use the Whole World as Your Child's Classroomby Mary Griffith
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761512764

The Art of Education: Reclaiming Your Family, Community and Self by Linda Dobson
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0913677140

The Homeschooling Book of Answers: The 101 Most Important Questions Answered by Homeschooling's Most Respected Voices by Linda Dobson
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761535705

Homeschooling Our Children; Unschooling Ourselves by Alison McKee
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0965780627

Deschooling Our Lives by Matt Hern
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0865713421

Parenting a Free Child: An Unschooled Lifeby Rue Kream
http://www.freechild.info/

Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0865714487

A Sense of Self: Listening to Homeschooled Adolescent Girls by Susanna Sheffer http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0867094052

In Their Own Way: Discovering and Encouraging Your Child's Multiple Intelligencesby Thomas Armstrong 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1585420514

Seven Kinds of Smart: Identifying and Developing Your Multiple Intelligencesby Thomas Armstrong 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0452281377

You're Smarter Than You Think: A Kid's Guide to Multiple Intelligences by Thomas Armstrong
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1575421135

For the Children's Sake by Susan Schaeffer MacAulay
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/089107290X

Learning At Home: A Mother's Guide To Homeschooling by Marty Layne
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0968293824

Have Fun. Learn Stuff. Grow.: Homeschooling and the Curriculum of Loveby David H. Albert
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1567513700

Homeschooling and the Voyage of Self-Discovery by David Albert
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1567512321

The Successful Homeschool Family Handbook by Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0785281754

Better Late Than Earlyby Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0883490498

School Can Waitby Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0842513140

Coloring Outside the Lines by Roger Schank 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0060930772

Punished by Rewards: The Trouble With Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, As, Praise & Other Bribes by Alfie Kohn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0618001816

The Unprocessed Child: Living Without School by Valerie Fitzenreiter
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0972941606

Growing Without Schooling: A Record of a Grassroots Movement by John Holt, Susannah Sheffer 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0913677108

The Day I Became an Autodidactby Kendall Hailey
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0440550130

The Book of Learning and Forgettingby Frank Smith 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/080773750X

Better Than School: One Family's Declaration of Independence by Nancy Wallace 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0943914051

Child's Work: Taking Children's Choices Seriously by Nancy Wallace
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/091367706X

And the Children Played by Patricia Joudry
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0912766166

With Consent: Parenting for All to Win by Jan Fortune-Wood 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1900219247

Deschooling Society by Ivan Illich
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0714508799

*************PERIODICALS*************

Home Education Magazine: 
http://www.homeedmag.com/index.html

Live Free, Learn Free:
http://www.livefreelearnfree.com/

Life Learning:
http://www.lifelearningmagazine.com

*************WEBSITES*************

Unschooling Wikipedia: 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unschooling

Unschooling.com:
http://www.unschooling.com (See "Library" & "Message Boards")

Car Talk Guys:
Education:
The Learning of Skills We Will Never Need?
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/

The Education Forum
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/

The New Theory of Learning
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/r-rlast15.html

The Education Forum II
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/index2.html

Autodidactic Press:
http://www.autodidactic.com

Libertarian Unschooling:
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/6529/index1.html

Unschooling Undefined:
http://www.midnightbeach.com/hs/UnschoolingUndefined.html

Home's Cool A to Z:
http://www.gomilpitas.com/homeschooling/methods/Unschooling.htm

Sandra Dodd:
http://sandradodd.com/unschooling.html

Child-led Natural Learning:
http://www.alternative-learning.org

Delight-Driven Learning:
http://home-educate.com/unschooling/index.shtml

Family Unschoolers Network:
http://www.fun-books.com

The Natural Child Project:
http://www.naturalchild.com/guest/earl_stevens.html

AHA Information Page:
http://www.americanhomeschoolassociation.org/info.html

Amy Bell's Natural Learning:
http://home.rmci.net/abell/

Alfie Kohn:
http://www.alfiekohn.org/articles.htm

Search Google for thousands more unschooling resources!
http://www.google.com

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Want to know more about unschooling?

Warning: This is a long list, and I haven't even checked them all out myself, so I can't promise you all the content will be from a Biblical perspective (probably not) or have only *good* pictures and text on them!

-----------------------------------------------------

Unschooling 101

************* BOOKS *************

Learning All the Time by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201550911

How Children Learn by John Caldwell Holt 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201484048

How Children Fail by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0201484021

Teach Your Own: The John Holt Book of Homeschooling by John Holt and Patrick Farenga
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0738206946

Instead of Education: Ways to Help People Do Things Better by John Caldwell Holt
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0525134379

Moving a Puddle and Other Essaysby Sandra Dodd
http://sandradodd.com/puddlebook

The Relaxed Home School: A Family Productionby Mary Hood
http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/0963974009

The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How To Quit School and Get a Real Life & Education by Grace Llewellyn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0962959170

Real Lives: Eleven Teenagers Who Don't Go To School by Grace Llewellyn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0962959138

The Homeschooling Handbook by Mary Griffith
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761501924

The Unschooling Handbook: How to Use the Whole World as Your Child's Classroomby Mary Griffith
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761512764

The Art of Education: Reclaiming Your Family, Community and Self by Linda Dobson
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0913677140

The Homeschooling Book of Answers: The 101 Most Important Questions Answered by Homeschooling's Most Respected Voices by Linda Dobson
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0761535705

Homeschooling Our Children; Unschooling Ourselves by Alison McKee
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0965780627

Deschooling Our Lives by Matt Hern
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0865713421

Parenting a Free Child: An Unschooled Lifeby Rue Kream
http://www.freechild.info/

Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0865714487

A Sense of Self: Listening to Homeschooled Adolescent Girls by Susanna Sheffer http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0867094052

In Their Own Way: Discovering and Encouraging Your Child's Multiple Intelligencesby Thomas Armstrong 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1585420514

Seven Kinds of Smart: Identifying and Developing Your Multiple Intelligencesby Thomas Armstrong 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0452281377

You're Smarter Than You Think: A Kid's Guide to Multiple Intelligences by Thomas Armstrong
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1575421135

For the Children's Sake by Susan Schaeffer MacAulay
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/089107290X

Learning At Home: A Mother's Guide To Homeschooling by Marty Layne
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0968293824

Have Fun. Learn Stuff. Grow.: Homeschooling and the Curriculum of Loveby David H. Albert
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1567513700

Homeschooling and the Voyage of Self-Discovery by David Albert
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1567512321

The Successful Homeschool Family Handbook by Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0785281754

Better Late Than Earlyby Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0883490498

School Can Waitby Raymond & Dorothy Moore
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0842513140

Coloring Outside the Lines by Roger Schank 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0060930772

Punished by Rewards: The Trouble With Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, As, Praise & Other Bribes by Alfie Kohn
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0618001816

The Unprocessed Child: Living Without School by Valerie Fitzenreiter
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0972941606

Growing Without Schooling: A Record of a Grassroots Movement by John Holt, Susannah Sheffer 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0913677108

The Day I Became an Autodidactby Kendall Hailey
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0440550130

The Book of Learning and Forgettingby Frank Smith 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/080773750X

Better Than School: One Family's Declaration of Independence by Nancy Wallace 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0943914051

Child's Work: Taking Children's Choices Seriously by Nancy Wallace
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/091367706X

And the Children Played by Patricia Joudry
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0912766166

With Consent: Parenting for All to Win by Jan Fortune-Wood 
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/1900219247

Deschooling Society by Ivan Illich
http://amazon.com/o/ASIN/0714508799

*************PERIODICALS*************

Home Education Magazine: 
http://www.homeedmag.com/index.html

Live Free, Learn Free:
http://www.livefreelearnfree.com/

Life Learning:
http://www.lifelearningmagazine.com

*************WEBSITES*************

Unschooling Wikipedia: 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unschooling

Unschooling.com:
http://www.unschooling.com (See "Library" & "Message Boards")

Car Talk Guys:
Education:
The Learning of Skills We Will Never Need?
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/

The Education Forum
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/

The New Theory of Learning
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/r-rlast15.html

The Education Forum II
http://www.cartalk.com/content/features/ATC/Education/index2.html

Autodidactic Press:
http://www.autodidactic.com

Libertarian Unschooling:
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/6529/index1.html

Unschooling Undefined:
http://www.midnightbeach.com/hs/UnschoolingUndefined.html

Home's Cool A to Z:
http://www.gomilpitas.com/homeschooling/methods/Unschooling.htm

Sandra Dodd:
http://sandradodd.com/unschooling.html

Child-led Natural Learning:
http://www.alternative-learning.org

Delight-Driven Learning:
http://home-educate.com/unschooling/index.shtml

Family Unschoolers Network:
http://www.fun-books.com

The Natural Child Project:
http://www.naturalchild.com/guest/earl_stevens.html

AHA Information Page:
http://www.americanhomeschoolassociation.org/info.html

Amy Bell's Natural Learning:
http://home.rmci.net/abell/

Alfie Kohn:
http://www.alfiekohn.org/articles.htm

Search Google for thousands more unschooling resources!
http://www.google.com