I have really enjoyed having short hair. I think I have had it cut 3 or maybe 4 times since vacation last October in order to keep it short. Well, even though I really like it, I have decided that I will probably always have long hair. Why?
Well, since you asked..... :)
I have been studying lately about head coverings in 1 Cor. chapter 11. The passage reads:
2-Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. 3-But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 4-Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, 5-but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. 6-For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. 7-For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. 8-For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. 9-Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. 10-That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. 11-Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; 12-for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God. 13-Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a wife to pray to God with her head uncovered? 14-Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, 15-but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering. 16-If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God.
Now, don't jump to conclusions. This post is not exactly about head coverings! It is about submission.
I have always had a hard time submitting and trying to figure out exactly what that means. And then I talk to an older woman (one example of many through the years) who has been a born-again believer most of her life and she says she is still learning to submit. (sigh) So I guess maybe I'll be dealing with it a while. Pride is similar, and actually it is hard to submit BECAUSE of pride.
And we all have pride, don't we? Or are you humble......and proud of it? :)
So I haven't exactly been convicted to wear a head covering, though I certainly think it is a great thing if women do this and I may too in the future, but I WAS convicted about my heart attitude when it comes to submission to my husband. I can submit in actions pretty easily, but my heart is not always right. I am to submit to my husband because I love him and want to serve him and make him happy, and I am to follow his example as he submits to Christ.
So back to the hair, this passage says that if a woman doesn't cover her head, it would be better for her to cut her hair short, but that is a disgrace! So it's either cover my short hair or grow it long again. I was going to cover my head when praying out loud so I could keep my hair short but Myles keeps bugging me about cutting off my long hair last fall. He tries to sound like he's just teasing me, but I know he was disappointed that I got it cut. He said something again this afternoon and I finally said, "If you want me to let it grow out again, just tell me! Let your 'yes' be yes and your 'no' be no!" (I just had to throw in a verse there. LOL!)
He still didn't just come out and say it because he wants it to be my decision, I suppose, but he did tell me, "Let me just put it this way; I PREFER your hair to be long."
Okay, fine, I get it. I will let go of this vain thing and go back to the flat hair, maybe with bangs this time (LOL), if that is what makes him happy.
So I'm still working on the heart attitude, but at least I am aware of it now and it is constantly in my face, so to speak. I know I'll never be perfect, but I hope to always work toward being a better wife. Right now there is MUCH room for improvement!